Let’s face it. The online dating world is here and it is staying. No matter what people say about it, more and more people are logging in every day to find their perfect match. According to research, 49 percent of online dating app users in USA were there to find an exclusive match.
So if you’re new to the scene, it can seem pretty daunting.
Find out what your expectations are. Don’t think about finding ‘The One’ immediately. Keep your expectations a little low, like you’re going to meet someone interesting and then see what happens, or you’re just going to have fun. It’s quite normal to be positive about your future, and you should be, but expecting the right partner to fall into your lap right away is setting yourself up for stress and disappointment. If you want to play this game, keep your expectations realistic.
Choose your platform wisely
There’s a plethora of dating sites and apps out there. It can be pretty hard to find the right app or apps to join. So, it’s essential that you clearly define your own expectations and priorities in order to choose the best hookup apps or sites for you. For example, what gender are you looking for? Are you looking for someone from a specific region? Or maybe a certain religious background? There are apps or sites for you.
A picture speaks a Thousand Words
Now that you’ve selected the platform or platforms that you match your requirements, interests and priorities, sign up for them. Most online dating platforms are free, some may charge you but it’s generally a nominal fees. Once you’ve done this, comes the next important step: Making your profile. The first thing you need to do is to upload a picture that shows you for what you are. No group shots or head shots for this one. People don’t have the time to try and figure out which one are you. Similarly, they don’t need to see the photo that you used for your office I.D. card. Select a photo that’s natural and unique. Like if you love dogs, upload a picture with all your dogs, or maybe with one of them.
It’s a Bio not a CV
Make sure that you know the difference between a dating site bio and a CV. Most people when updating their bio come off as if they are trying to get a job in your firm. Focus on what makes you special as a person, what makes you tick, what you like and what don’t you like. Although, it will be better if you keep the ‘don’t’ like list to a minimum. No one is going to bother starting up a conversation with grouchy smurf.
Match and Message
When you find some people that match your interests on these flirt apps, give a shout out to the ones that you think are interesting. Make sure that your ice breaker does not comprise of “Hey” or “Whatsup”. Be original and unique. Talk about something about their profile that you really liked or something that piqued your interest.
Meet and Greet
Once you start a conversation with your match, and things are going smoothly, try and meet your match in person. It is a good way to increase your rapport. If you keep on messaging each other back and forth, delaying the meeting part, whatever chemistry you thought you had, might just evaporate.
You’re all set now. Go get ‘em Tiger!!
