If something happened in the past which makes it difficult for you to trust them again, it requires a lot of time and effort from both sides to regain the faith. It is important from your side too that if someone trusts you then you do not have to break their trust by doing something unexpected. However, below listed are some ways in which you can trust someone again:
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Talk to Them:
If something has gone wrong between two people, then they must have something in their mind which they hesitate to speak to the opposite side. But in these cases, they should talk to them and discuss where the circumstances went wrong. This will build up your bond and ensure that whatever went wrong does not happen in the future. But whatever is going in your mind should be told to them rather than keeping it inside and making a wrong image for that person.
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Forgive:
Knowingly or unknowingly, there might arise situations where people did something wrong with you. This breaks your trust and makes it difficult for you to trust them again. But on the passage of time, you should make sure that the bad memory fades off and you forget that event. That should stop bothering you and hence you should forgive them. Rather you can make sure that it does not happen in the future after you forgive and trust them again.
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Know the Truth:
If you are not sure whether the person is breaking your trust or not, you should not take trust-related decisions beforehand. It may be possible that something looks different from outside but actually, the person is not wrong. This will affect your bond unnecessarily. Therefore, you should make the effort in knowing the truth before implying that they broke your trust. Moreover, to make sure that they are not breaking your trust and know the truth, you can install a secret phone tracker to have a watch on them and get a better picture.
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Know Each Other:
Lack of conversation results in not able to know what the other person thinks. There might be a change in perspective of vision in everyone you meet. This changes their actions and they appear as trust issues to you, while both of them are correct at their positions. Thus, in this case, you need to understand each other well to make trust again.
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Let Fear Go:
Due to some bad past experiences with the people around you, it becomes difficult for you to believe someone like them again. There remains a kind of fear in your mind which stops you from easily trusting people. For some time, it is good that you do not easily trust people, but it should also not take too long to do so on the other hand. Behavior and trustworthiness changes from person to person and hence should not be connected with your bad past experiences.
